The Storytelling Years
The age of wonder and first long books read aloud. We plant the seeds of myth, faith, and fairy tale before the world starts arguing about them.
Books
A Child's Introduction to the World
Geography, cultures, and landmarks in an illustrated reference format.
Charlotte's Web
A pig, a spider, a barn. The first great American children's novel about love and loss.
D'Aulaires' Book of Greek Myths
The standard. Beautiful illustrations, accurate stories. Every educated child should know these myths.
D'Aulaires' Book of Norse Myths
The other half of the d'Aulaire pair. Thor, Odin, Loki, and the end of the world.
Farmer Boy
Almanzo Wilder's boyhood on a New York farm. The food descriptions alone are worth the price.
Homer Price
A small-town Ohio boy and a doughnut machine that won't stop. Quintessentially American humor.
Little House in the Big Woods
The first of the Little House books. A Wisconsin childhood in the 1870s, rendered with extraordinary specificity.
Mr. Popper's Penguins
A house painter ends up with twelve penguins. The film versions are not the book.
Mrs. Frisby and the Rats of NIMH
A widowed field mouse and a colony of hyper-intelligent rats. Newbery Medal, and earns it.
Mrs. Piggle-Wiggle
A neighborhood woman cures children of common vices through cheerful absurdity.
My Father's Dragon
A small boy outwits a jungle full of wild animals to rescue a baby dragon. A perfect first chapter book.
Pippi Longstocking
The strongest girl in the world lives alone with a horse and a monkey. Pure joy.
Stories of the Saints
Any good illustrated edition. DePaola's collections are excellent; Vision Books and Ignatius Press also publish solid series for this age.
Stuart Little
A mouse-sized boy on a New York adventure. Brief, strange, beautiful.
The Boxcar Children
Four orphan siblings make a home in an abandoned boxcar. Stick to the original four books; later sequels were written by others.
Stick to the original four; later books in the series were written by other authors and lack the same quality.
The Children's Book of Virtues
Short stories and poems organized around courage, honesty, work, and other virtues. A good bedtime reader.
The Chronicles of Narnia
The seven-book gateway to the Christian imagination. Start with The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe.
The Cricket in Times Square
A Connecticut cricket finds himself in a Times Square newsstand. Charming and surprisingly literary.
The House at Pooh Corner
The second Pooh book, ending with the most famous goodbye in children's literature.
The Trumpet of the Swan
A mute trumpeter swan finds his voice. White at his most tender.
The Wind in the Willows
Mole, Rat, Badger, and Toad on the riverbank. A lasting picture of friendship and home.
Winnie-the-Pooh
Read the Milne, not the Disney. The original sentences are the point.
Poetry
A Child's Garden of Verses
Stevenson's verses for children. Memorize a few; they will stay for life.
Paul Revere's Ride
The American narrative poem to memorize first. "Listen, my children, and you shall hear..."
Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening
Sixteen lines of quiet perfection. Short enough to memorize in a single sitting.
The Road Not Taken
Frost's most famous poem, more ambiguous than most people think. Worth knowing by heart.
Folklore
Mother Goose
The first poems a child knows by heart. Hickory dickory dock, Jack and Jill, Mary had a little lamb. Read aloud at bedtime; sing the ones with tunes. The Iona and Peter Opie edition is the scholarly one; any good illustrated edition does the work.
Aesop's Fables
The lion and the mouse. The tortoise and the hare. The boy who cried wolf. A child of eight can hold the moral of an Aesop fable in his head for a lifetime; choose a translation that ends with the moral plainly stated.
The Brothers Grimm: selected fairy tales
Hansel and Gretel, Snow White, Cinderella, The Bremen Town Musicians, Rumpelstiltskin. Read the older translations — Margaret Hunt, or the Pantheon edition with its notes. The Disney versions are not the same stories.
The older translations preserve genuinely violent endings — the stepsisters' heels and toes in Cinderella, doves pecking eyes, the queen dancing in red-hot iron shoes in Snow White. Preview each tale and paraphrase the worst lines if reading aloud to the younger end of this range.
Hans Christian Andersen: fairy tales
The Little Mermaid, The Snow Queen, The Ugly Duckling, The Nightingale, The Emperor's New Clothes. Where Grimm collected, Andersen invented — these are literary fairy tales by a single Danish hand, sadder and stranger than the German ones. Read Jean Hersholt's translations or the Tiina Nunnally edition.
Sadder than Grimm and often grimly final — the original Little Mermaid does not get the prince, The Little Match Girl freezes to death, The Red Shoes ends with the girl's feet cut off. Some children find these overwhelming; preview before reading aloud.
Films
Babe
A pig who wants to be a sheepdog. Gentle, beautiful, unexpectedly profound.
Charlotte's Web (1973)
The Hanna-Barbera animated version. The 2006 live-action is also acceptable.
Finding Nemo
A father searches for his son across the ocean. Pixar at its emotional peak.
Kiki's Delivery Service
A young witch sets out on her own. Quiet, formative, and surprisingly substantial.
Mary Poppins
Disney's live-action peak. A practically perfect family musical.
My Neighbor Totoro
The gateway Ghibli film. Two sisters, a forest spirit, a sick mother, rural Japan.
Old Yeller
A Texas boy and his dog. Be ready for tears at the end.
The ending is genuinely sad. Worth discussing afterward.
Pinocchio
Disney's second feature and arguably its best. Conscience, temptation, transformation.
Ponyo
A goldfish princess and a small boy on the coast. Pure visual wonder for younger viewers.
Ratatouille
A rat who wants to cook in Paris. The closing monologue is one of the great defenses of art and criticism.
Swiss Family Robinson
A shipwrecked family builds a treehouse civilization. The platonic ideal of family adventure.
The Adventures of Robin Hood
Errol Flynn in Technicolor. The definitive Robin Hood film and a perfect first classic.
The Incredibles
A superhero family. Brad Bird's ode to excellence and family loyalty.
The Princess Bride
Fencing, fighting, torture, revenge, giants, monsters, chases, escapes, true love, miracles. The unbeatable family classic.
The Sound of Music
The Trapp family, the Anschluss, and the hills are alive. Pre-war Catholic Austria in three hours of song.
Toy Story
The Pixar foundation. Watch the first three as a trilogy; skip the fourth.
Up
The first ten minutes alone are worth the price of admission. A widower lifts his house with balloons.
Documentaries
Planet Earth
The BBC nature series that reset what was possible. Eleven episodes covering every major habitat on the planet. Watch one a week with the lights down.
Blue Planet II
The oceans, ten years on from the original Blue Planet. Underwater cinematography that genuinely had not existed before.
March of the Penguins
The Emperor penguins' annual march to their inland breeding grounds and back. About endurance and parental love as much as it is about birds.
Microcosmos
A meadow in France, filmed in extreme close-up: insects, snails, dewdrops, a sudden thunderstorm. Almost no narration. The natural world made strange again.
Foods
Apple pie
The national dessert. Worth making the crust from scratch at least once.
Baguette with butter
A real baguette from a real bakery, with good butter and flaky salt.
Bratwurst
Real German sausage, ideally on a fresh roll with sauerkraut.
Burgers and hot dogs at a backyard cookout
Charcoal, not gas, at least once. The smoke is part of the meal.
Chocolate chip cookies
The Toll House recipe, made together. A weekly ritual is not too much.
Churros
Fried dough with cinnamon sugar. Ideally with hot chocolate for dipping.
Fish and chips
Battered cod, thick chips, malt vinegar. Wrap in paper if possible.
Grilled cheese and tomato soup
The American comfort lunch. Butter the bread, not the pan.
Hot chocolate (chocolat chaud)
The French version: actual chocolate melted into hot milk, not powder. Try Angelina's in Paris if you ever can.
Macaroni and cheese (stovetop)
The real version with a roux. Box mac is fine, but a child should know the difference.
Margherita pizza
Tomato, mozzarella, basil. The platonic pizza, named for an Italian queen.
Pancakes and waffles from scratch
Real batter, not from a box. The first cooking competence a child should own.
Pretzels
Soft, salted, ideally Bavarian. Mustard on the side.
S'mores around a fire
Graham cracker, Hershey's, toasted marshmallow. Requires a real fire, not a candle.
Scones with jam
Cream first or jam first depending on whether you ask Devon or Cornwall. Both are correct.
Spaghetti and meatballs
The Italian-American Sunday meal. A different dish from real Italian Bolognese, and worth knowing both.
Tacos, beans, and rice
Real tortillas, not crunchy shells. Carnitas or carne asada beats ground beef.
Experiences
Attend a high Mass or Easter Vigil
The full ceremony with incense, candles, and chant. Easter Vigil especially: the entire Christian story in one night.
See a live nativity or pageant at Christmas
Real animals if possible. The story made physical and present.
Sit through a full baseball game in person
Nine innings, peanuts and Cracker Jack, the seventh-inning stretch. The pace is part of the lesson.
Visit a working farm or orchard
Watch animals being fed, fruit being picked, work being done. Where food comes from.
Watch fireworks on the Fourth of July
A real municipal fireworks show, not backyard sparklers. The civic ritual of being American.
Music
Beethoven Symphony No. 5
Da-da-da-DAH. The famous one, but listen to all four movements.
Beethoven Symphony No. 6 (Pastoral)
The accessible Beethoven symphony for children. A walk in the country, a thunderstorm, a hymn of thanksgiving.
Gregorian chant
The original Western music. Solesmes recordings or Norcia monks for a starting point.
Art
Norman Rockwell
The Four Freedoms, the Saturday Evening Post covers, the civil rights paintings. American twentieth-century iconography.
The California Missions
The 21 Franciscan missions from San Diego to Sonoma. Walk the grounds; pray in the chapels.
Quotes
“I pledge allegiance to the Flag of the United States of America, and to the Republic for which it stands, one Nation under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all.”
“Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Amen.”
“Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted. Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth. Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled.”
“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.”
“The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.”
“In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth. And the earth was without form, and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters. And God said, Let there be light: and there was light.”
“Is life so dear, or peace so sweet, as to be purchased at the price of chains and slavery? Forbid it, Almighty God! I know not what course others may take; but as for me, give me liberty or give me death!”
“Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed art thou amongst women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen.”