The Hero's Journey
The first stirrings of the moral life. We hand them stories of trial and return — Odysseus, Joan of Arc, Lincoln — and let them try the path on for size.
Books
1776
The pivotal year of the American Revolution, told as narrative.
A Christmas Carol
Scrooge's conversion. Read it aloud at Christmas. Read the original, not an abridgment.
A History of the American People
Read in selections. Johnson is opinionated, well-written, and gives a strong narrative spine.
A Midsummer Night's Dream
The other good first Shakespeare: fairies, lovers, and a play within a play.
Around the World in Eighty Days
Phileas Fogg's wager and global circumnavigation in 1872. Brisk and delightful.
Confessions, Book I
Augustine's account of his boyhood. The full Confessions can wait until 16-18.
David Copperfield
Dickens's most autobiographical novel and arguably his best. A long but rewarding investment.
Jane Eyre
Older end of this range. A governess, a brooding employer, and one of literature's great heroines.
Older end of this range; some romantic intensity and a difficult portrayal of mental illness.
John Adams
The Pulitzer-winning biography. A good entry into the founding generation.
Julius Caesar
A good first Shakespeare: clear plot, famous speeches, political weight.
Lamb's Tales from Shakespeare
Prose versions of Shakespeare's plays. The traditional bridge before reading a real play.
Mere Christianity (selections)
Selected chapters at this age; full reading at 16-18. The "Right and Wrong" opening is the place to start.
My Ántonia
A Bohemian girl on the Nebraska prairie. Cather's great novel of the American immigrant story.
Oliver Twist
A first full Dickens novel. Workhouses, thieves, and London.
Plutarch's Lives (selections)
The parallel biographies of Greek and Roman statesmen. Start with Alexander, Caesar, Brutus, Cato.
Pride and Prejudice
Austen at her wittiest. Older end of the range; some readers prefer it at 14-15.
The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn
The Great American Novel by most counts. Be ready to discuss the language and the moral arc.
Contains period racial language; worth reading alongside a parent the first time.
The Aeneid (Sutcliff retelling)
The founding myth of Rome, recast for younger readers without losing the weight.
The Count of Monte Cristo
Wrongful imprisonment, escape, fortune, and revenge. Read an unabridged or generously abridged edition.
The Iliad (Black Ships Before Troy)
Sutcliff's prose retelling is the best entry point at this age. Full translation can wait until 14-15.
The Light in the Forest
A white boy raised by the Lenape is returned to his colonial family. About belonging and divided loyalty.
The Lord of the Rings
The full trilogy. Tolkien's Catholic imagination rendered as English myth.
The Old Man and the Sea
Hemingway distilled. Short, perfect, and a good first encounter with his style.
The Red Badge of Courage
A young Union soldier confronts his own fear in battle. Brief, intense, foundational.
The Screwtape Letters
A senior demon advises his nephew on how to corrupt a soul. Funny, terrifying, useful.
The Story of a Soul
Short, profound, accessible. The little way, in the saint's own words.
The Three Musketeers
D'Artagnan, Athos, Porthos, Aramis. The original buddy adventure.
The Yearling
A boy and a fawn in the Florida scrub. Pulitzer winner.
To Kill a Mockingbird
Atticus Finch, Scout, the Robinson trial. The American moral education novel.
Undaunted Courage
Lewis and Clark and the opening of the American West.
Poetry
Beowulf
The Heaney translation is the standard. A prose version is also acceptable at this stage.
The Odyssey
Use Fitzgerald, Wilson, or Lattimore. Sutcliff's prose Wanderings of Odysseus is a fine on-ramp.
Films
12 Angry Men
A single jury room, twelve men, ninety minutes. The civic virtue film.
A Man for All Seasons
Thomas More refuses to swear an oath. The conscience film.
Casablanca
Bogart, Bergman, "round up the usual suspects." The Hollywood film.
Chariots of Fire
"God made me fast. And when I run, I feel his pleasure." The Eric Liddell film.
Field of Dreams
"If you build it, he will come." Baseball as American mysticism.
High Noon
Gary Cooper alone against four killers and a town that won't help. The duty western.
Hoosiers
A small-town Indiana basketball team. The platonic ideal of an American sports film.
Master and Commander
A British frigate in the Pacific during the Napoleonic Wars. The best naval film made.
Saving Private Ryan (selected scenes)
Opening Omaha Beach scene and closing cemetery scene with discussion. Full film is for ages 15+.
Intense violence; show only the opening and closing at this age, with discussion. The full film is for 15+.
Seven Samurai
Three and a half hours and worth every minute. Kurosawa's defense-of-the-village epic.
The Mission
Jesuits in eighteenth-century Paraguay. Profound and visually overwhelming.
Some violence and mature themes; preview before watching. The Ennio Morricone score alone is worth the experience.
The Quiet Man
John Wayne in rural Ireland. Sentimental, beautiful, very Irish-Catholic.
To Kill a Mockingbird
Gregory Peck as Atticus. Watch after reading the book.
Documentaries
The Civil War
Nine episodes that more or less established what a serious American documentary can be. The Shelby Foote narration alone is an education. Watch with a parent and pause to discuss.
Period photographs of battlefield dead and frank discussion of slavery throughout.
Baseball
Nine "innings," one per episode. The social history of twentieth-century America told through one game — immigration, race, money, and the long Brooklyn Dodgers tragedy.
The West
Eight episodes on the American West from the Spanish entradas through statehood. Honest about the Indian Wars; honest about everything else.
Apollo 11
Restored 70mm footage of the mission itself, with no talking heads, no retrospective interviews — just the eight days as they happened. Live it in real time.
Man on Wire
Philippe Petit's 1974 wire walk between the World Trade Center towers, told as a heist film. About what an artist will do for one perfect act.
Foods
A proper espresso
A real espresso from a real machine. Standing at the bar in Italy is the right context.
A real cappuccino
Espresso, steamed milk, foam. Before 11 a.m. only, if you want to be Italian about it.
Artisan sourdough (real bakery)
A long-fermented loaf from a serious bakery: dark crust, open crumb, sour finish.
Beignets
Square fried dough, smothered in powdered sugar. Café du Monde in New Orleans is the place.
Borscht
Beet soup, often with beef. Topped with sour cream and dill.
Bread from scratch, kneaded by hand
Flour, water, yeast, salt. Knead, rise, bake. The fundamental food of the West.
Cure or smoke something
Bacon, gravlax, pastrami, smoked brisket. The traditional preservation skills.
Falafel
Chickpea or fava bean fritters, fried fresh. The crisp shell to soft interior contrast is the point.
Goulash
Beef, paprika, onions, slow-cooked. The Hungarian national dish.
Greek roast lamb
Slow-roasted leg or shoulder with garlic, lemon, oregano. Easter Sunday food.
Grill a steak and understand cuts
Know ribeye from strip from tenderloin from skirt. Hot grill, salt, rest. Reverse-sear thicker cuts.
Gumbo
Dark roux, the holy trinity, andouille, shrimp or chicken. Louisiana in a pot.
Hummus
Chickpeas, tahini, lemon, garlic, olive oil. Made fresh, not from a tub.
In-N-Out Burger
Animal style, double-double. A California regional rite of passage.
Jambalaya
The Louisiana rice dish. Cousin to paella and pilaf.
Kebabs
Lamb or chicken, marinated and grilled on skewers. With flatbread, yogurt, herbs.
Lamb shawarma
Spiced lamb roasted on a vertical spit, shaved into pita with garlic sauce and pickles.
Neapolitan pizza
Tipo 00 flour, San Marzano tomatoes, fior di latte. Cooked very hot, very fast. A different food from American pizza.
Pasta from scratch
Flour, eggs, salt. Make tagliatelle by hand, then ravioli with a filling. Worth the day.
Pierogi
Potato-cheese or sauerkraut filling, boiled then fried in butter with onions.
Real fish tacos
Battered or grilled white fish, cabbage, crema, lime. Baja-California style.
Roast a whole chicken
High heat, salt the day before, butter under the skin. The single most useful cooking skill.
Spanish tapas spread
Six or eight small dishes: jamón, manchego, tortilla, gambas al ajillo, olives, bread.
Sunday gravy (Italian-American) or French mother sauce
A slow-cooked tomato meat sauce, or béchamel/velouté/espagnole. The day-long Sunday project.
Experiences
Pilgrimage to a Catholic shrine
Guadalupe, Lourdes, Fatima, Czestochowa, the Basilica of the Immaculate Conception in DC. Even a regional shrine matters.
Read scripture cover-to-cover with help
Start with Genesis, Exodus, the Gospels. A study Bible (Ignatius, Didache) helps enormously.
See a Shakespeare play performed live
In a real theater with real actors. The plays were written to be performed, not read.
Stand in a great cathedral
Anything Gothic. Even a smaller one — the California missions, Mission San Diego de Alcalá — does the work.
Visit Washington, D.C., monuments at night
The Lincoln Memorial, the Jefferson, the Vietnam Wall after dark. The American civic pilgrimage.
Music
Bach sacred works
Mass in B Minor, St. Matthew Passion, the cantatas. Bach is the Mount Everest.
Dvořák's New World Symphony
Dvořák in America. The Largo second movement is the famous one ("Goin' Home").
Ella Fitzgerald
The Songbook series she recorded for Verve. Ella sings Gershwin, Porter, Berlin, Ellington.
Frank Sinatra
The Capitol years (1954-1962). Start with In the Wee Small Hours and Songs for Swingin' Lovers.
Hank Williams
The original country voice. Cold Cold Heart, I'm So Lonesome I Could Cry, Lost Highway.
Mozart's Requiem
Mozart's unfinished Mass for the dead, completed by Süssmayr. The Lacrimosa is the famous moment.
Stevie Wonder
The classic period: Talking Book, Innervisions, Songs in the Key of Life.
The Beatles
Rubber Soul, Revolver, Sgt. Pepper, the White Album, Abbey Road. All of it, in order.
The Carter Family
The root of American country and folk music. Wildwood Flower, Can the Circle Be Unbroken.
Willie Nelson
Red Headed Stranger, Stardust, the duets with everyone.
The Child Ballads
Child's nineteenth-century collection of three hundred English and Scottish ballads — the deep folk-tradition source for a thousand later songs. Read Tam Lin, Sir Patrick Spens, Barbara Allen, The Twa Corbies. Better, listen to them sung: Anne Briggs, Martin Carthy, June Tabor, Dick Gaughan.
Art
Andrew Wyeth
Christina's World, the Helga pictures, the Maine and Pennsylvania paintings.
Botticelli: Primavera and The Birth of Venus
Uffizi, Florence. The two great secular mythological paintings of the early Renaissance.
Bruegel: Hunters in the Snow, the peasant scenes
Sixteenth-century Netherlandish life rendered with detail and warmth. Vienna and Brussels hold most.
Hagia Sophia, Istanbul
Sixth-century Byzantine cathedral, now a mosque. The dome that defined Eastern Christian architecture.
Leonardo: The Last Supper
Milan. The moment Christ says "one of you will betray me," with each apostle's reaction.
Michelangelo: Sistine Chapel ceiling
Vatican. The creation, the fall, the flood, the prophets and sibyls. The peak of Western painting by some counts.
Raphael: School of Athens
Vatican. Every great philosopher of antiquity in one room. The visual emblem of Western intellectual tradition.
St. Peter's Basilica
Vatican. The largest church in the world. Michelangelo's dome, Bernini's baldachin, the Pietà.
Vermeer: Girl with a Pearl Earring and The Milkmaid
Vermeer's extant paintings number around 35. Every one is worth knowing.
Winslow Homer
The American sea and shore painter. The late Prout's Neck oils especially.
Quotes
“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair.”
“So, first of all, let me assert my firm belief that the only thing we have to fear is fear itself — nameless, unreasoning, unjustified terror which paralyzes needed efforts to convert retreat into advance.”
“Yesterday, December 7th, 1941 — a date which will live in infamy — the United States of America was suddenly and deliberately attacked by naval and air forces of the Empire of Japan.”
“To be, or not to be, that is the question: Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune, Or to take arms against a sea of troubles, And by opposing end them.”
“What a piece of work is a man! How noble in reason, how infinite in faculty! In form and moving how express and admirable! In action how like an angel, in apprehension how like a god! The beauty of the world. The paragon of animals.”
“We few, we happy few, we band of brothers; For he today that sheds his blood with me Shall be my brother; be he ne'er so vile, This day shall gentle his condition.”
“It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife.”
“All the world's a stage, And all the men and women merely players; They have their exits and their entrances, And one man in his time plays many parts, His acts being seven ages.”
“Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.”
“And so, my fellow Americans, ask not what your country can do for you — ask what you can do for your country. My fellow citizens of the world, ask not what America will do for you, but what together we can do for the freedom of man.”
“Friends, Romans, countrymen, lend me your ears; I come to bury Caesar, not to praise him. The evil that men do lives after them; The good is oft interred with their bones; So let it be with Caesar.”
“Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.”
“My soul doth magnify the Lord, and my spirit hath rejoiced in God my Saviour. For he hath regarded the low estate of his handmaiden: for, behold, from henceforth all generations shall call me blessed.”
“I believe in one God, the Father almighty, maker of heaven and earth, of all things visible and invisible.”
“Let us therefore brace ourselves to our duties, and so bear ourselves that, if the British Empire and its Commonwealth last for a thousand years, men will still say, 'This was their finest hour.'”
“We shall fight on the beaches, we shall fight on the landing grounds, we shall fight in the fields and in the streets, we shall fight in the hills; we shall never surrender.”
“I have nothing to offer but blood, toil, tears, and sweat.”